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Your Questions - Answered!

1. What age group is the Heartfelt Family Rules designed for?

The Heartfelt Family Rules are designed for families with children ages 3 and up. The tactile felt hearts and simple rules make it easy for younger children to engage, while the values and activities can grow with your family, making them meaningful for older children too.​

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2. Do I need to use the felt hearts, or can I use the rules on their own?
The rules can be used on their own or paired with the felt hearts for a hands-on, visual learning experience. The felt hearts add a tactile and memorable element that helps children connect with the rules in a deeper way, but the framework works beautifully with or without them.

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3. How do I introduce the rules to my family?
The Guidebook includes a step-by-step guide for introducing the rules to your family. Start by explaining each rule and its corresponding heart, and then incorporate them into daily life through conversations, activities, and celebrations.

 

4. Are the felt hearts safe for younger children?
The standard felt hearts are approximately 1–1.5 inches in size and are not recommended for children under 3 years old due to choking hazards. For younger children, we offer a toddler-friendly version with larger hearts (over 3 inches) that are safe for supervised play.

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5. Can I customize the rules for my family?
Yes! The system is flexible and can be personalized to fit your family’s unique dynamics. The Guidebook includes tips for creating your own rules and adapting the Heartfelt Family Rules to suit your needs.

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6. How do I use the rules for conflict resolution?
The Heartfelt Family Rules are designed to encourage open conversations during conflicts. Ask questions like, “Is there a heart being broken? What color? How can we fix it?” This approach helps children reflect on their actions and find solutions with empathy and understanding. The Guidebook goes into more detail and examples of how to approach conflict resolution with the hearts.

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7. Are there additional resources available?
Yes! We offer add-ons like the Needle Felting Kit to craft your own hearts, a Coloring Book Journal for creative expression, and bonus digital downloads for topics like sibling conflict and weekly reflections.

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8. Do I need the Complete Kit to use the rules?
Not at all. While the Complete Kit includes everything you need to get started, individual products like the printed rules, guidebook, or felt hearts can also be purchased separately to fit your family’s needs.

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9. Can I use this in a classroom or group setting?
Yes, the Heartfelt Family Rules can be a wonderful tool for classrooms, daycare centers, or group environments. The rules and felt hearts encourage teamwork, communication, and respect in any setting.

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10. How do I know if the Heartfelt Family Rules are right for me?
The Heartfelt Family Rules are perfect for families looking for a hands-on, values-based approach to parenting. If you want to nurture kindness, respect, and cooperation while building stronger connections with your children, this system can be a great fit. Whether you’re facing challenging behaviors, want to encourage teamwork, or are simply looking for tools to reinforce positive values, the Heartfelt Family Rules provide a practical, customizable framework to support your parenting journey.

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